PARSHAS TOLDOS 5777

“RABBI’S MUSINGS (&
AMUSINGS)”
Erev Shabbos Kodesh
Parshas Lech Lecha
10 MarCheshvan 5777/ November
11, 2016
 My rebbe, Rabbi
Berel Wein, related that shortly before he made Aliyah in 1997, he took some of
his grandchildren to a Yankees game at the old Yankees Stadium. 
It
was a close game, and the Yankees lost in extra innings. The mood in the
stadium was very melancholy as the Yankees faithful slowly and grumpily exited
the stadium. 
As
they were leaving, one of his grandchildren asked Rabbi Wein, “Zaydei, how
come you’re not upset about the loss like you the rest of us?” Rabbi
Wein replied, “because I’m a Cubs fan. We haven’t won a World Series since
1908. We are used to losing, so today’s loss is no big deal.”
Rabbi
Wein mused that a person has to know how to live with struggles and defeats,
because failures and disappointments are inevitable and par for the course in
life. A successful person is not one who never fails, as much as it is one who
knows how to traverse setbacks, and not allow them to completely derail him.
Well,
in the wee hours of November 3, 2016, the Cubs have finally won a World Series.
There’s
no one alive today who remembers the last time they won, but the lovable losers
have finally become winners.
So
now the question becomes whether a team that has lost for so long can deal with
such a significant win. 
Not
surprisingly, this is another lesson Rabbi Wein taught us: A person has to know
how to deal with success, and how to capitalize on it, and how to use it to
benefit others. Tragically, there are many people who are destroyed by
their own successes, because they don’t know how to handle them, or how to
capitalize on them. 
In
our world, many of us struggle with a balance of both of these challenges. On
the one hand we are blessed to live in such an affluent society with so much
opportunity. Yet, on the other hand, we struggle to keep up with the impossible
financial demands of living in such a world. This includes yeshiva tuitions,
the expenses of Shabbos and yomim tovim, and all of the other expenses involved
in living an elevated Torah life.
The
Mesilas Yesharim cautions us that everything in life is a challenge – poverty
is one type of challenge, affluence and wealth is another. The main thing is
that we always seek to make the best out of every situation, as we think Hashem
wants from us.
So
Cubs fans, enjoy your moment of glory – make sure use you celebrate
wisely. 
As
for Cleveland Indians fans, sorry that Lebron couldn’t save you this time. If
the Cubs are any indication of how long it takes to break out of being
“lovable losers”, you’re due to win the World Series in 2057. 
Shabbat Shalom
& Good Shabbos,

            R’ Dani and Chani Staum       

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