Parshas Miketz Shabbos Chanukah- Rosh Chodesh Teves

“RABBI’S MUSINGS (&
AMUSINGS)”
Erev Shabbos Kodesh
Parshas Miketz
Shabbos Chanukah- Rosh
Chodesh Teves  
29 Kislev 5779/December
7, 2018
Last week, I had the pleasure of spending Shabbos in Chicago.
I was invited to deliver a parenting lecture on Motzei Shabbos for the
Associated Talmud Torahs (ATT), and in order to do so I had to be there before
Shabbos.
My children didn’t understand why, if I was taking a two-hour
flight during the winter, was I going west and not south?
As I drove out of the car rental garage at O’Hare airport, I
was listening to a meteorologist and a sportscaster discussing the upcoming
weekend weather. The meteorologist related that Chicago would be hit with a
soaking rainstorm on Saturday. The sportscaster then asked what the weather would
be like for the Chicago Bears game when they played against the New York Giants
in New York on Sunday. The meteorologist replied that the storm that was to hit
Chicago on Saturday was heading eastward and would affect the New York area on
Sunday.
I enjoyed a beautiful Shabbos in Chicago, though there were
indeed heavy downpours throughout Shabbos. When I arrived back in New York on
Sunday, I was greeted by rain, which I knew was from the same weather system I
had seen the day before in Chicago.
I am always fascinated by airplanes and by flying. It is
amazing to me that within seconds after takeoff the solid ground suddenly
becomes a shrinking vista as the plane ascends. 

On Sunday morning as we flew above the clouds,
beautiful sunshine reflected off the clouds beneath us. Then, as soon as we
began descending into New York, the gray dreary rain was back, completely
concealing the resplendent sunshine above.
There are people who seem to carry ‘storms’ with them. They
are walking emotional tempests, who spread melancholy and gloom wherever they
go. They spend most of their time complaining and grumbling about everything
from politics, to finances, to their kids and spouses, to rabbis and
institutions.
But then there are others who seem to radiate happiness and
emotional sunshine wherever they go. No matter what is happening around them or
what personal challenges they are enduring at that juncture of their lives,
they seem to always be smiling and upbeat. These are the great people who live
above the clouds. They see life, not only as it is in the moment, but from a
broader perspective, which includes that life is a growth process with purpose
and direction.
Most of us probably don’t totally fall into either category,
but somewhere in between. We have our days when we feel completely overwhelmed
and defeated. The storms above us infiltrate our psyche and we become morose
and negative. 
Thankfully, we also have days when we feel so focused that
even the greatest challenges don’t seem to deter us.
The good news is that we can constantly grow and don’t have
to submit ourselves to the mood we are feeling at any given time. We have the
ability to force sunshine through our personal clouds. But we have to be
willing to work for it, and not resign ourselves to the exterior events taking
place around us. It requires a great deal of reflection and motivation to
maintain a positive demeanor on the darkest days.
The beauty of Chanukah is that it is a celebration of small
lights that shine in utter darkness. All other holidays of the year transport
us into a different realm – a world of that holiday when our entire conduct and
schedule changes. But on Chanukah, for the most part life goes on as normal.
Yet, the days of Chanukah aren’t just “normal” days. We recite Hallel, focus on
gratitude, and light the menorah, creating rays of sunshine in our otherwise
mundane existence. 
That is the light of Chanukah. Its ethereal glow is meant to
last with us well beyond the eight-day holiday.

            Good Shabbos & Shabbat Shalom
Chag Urim Sameiach & Lichtigeh Chanukah
R’ Dani and Chani Staum  

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