“RABBI’S
MUSINGS (& AMUSINGS)”
MUSINGS (& AMUSINGS)”
Erev Shabbos Kodesh
Parshas Toldos
Parshas Toldos
Rosh Chodesh Kislev 5776/
November 13, 2015
November 13, 2015
In Ashar I have the
privilege to be the fifth grade Rebbe and to serve as School Guidance Counselor.
My office shares a wall with the office of the nurse, Nurse Trish. I hung a
sign in between our offices which reads “Stomachache? From last night’s supper
– enter office on left, because of today’s test – enter office on right.”
privilege to be the fifth grade Rebbe and to serve as School Guidance Counselor.
My office shares a wall with the office of the nurse, Nurse Trish. I hung a
sign in between our offices which reads “Stomachache? From last night’s supper
– enter office on left, because of today’s test – enter office on right.”
Last week, Nurse Trish was
kind enough to arrange for a nurse to come to Ashar to administer the flu shot
to any faculty member who so desired. It was a long trip next door but I
received the injection. The only problem was that the administering nurse
didn’t bring any stickers with her, so my children didn’t believe me that I had
gotten a shot. The Band-Aid wasn’t enough to convince them.
kind enough to arrange for a nurse to come to Ashar to administer the flu shot
to any faculty member who so desired. It was a long trip next door but I
received the injection. The only problem was that the administering nurse
didn’t bring any stickers with her, so my children didn’t believe me that I had
gotten a shot. The Band-Aid wasn’t enough to convince them.
The next day I woke up with
minor flu like symptoms. I felt fatigued and had some achiness in my neck and
back, but I was able to proceed through my day pretty regularly.
minor flu like symptoms. I felt fatigued and had some achiness in my neck and
back, but I was able to proceed through my day pretty regularly.
It’s pretty incredible that
by injecting a controlled dosage into one’s body, the body immediately begins
producing antibodies to protect itself from a stronger attack of the disease.
It’s worth the minor discomfort for a day or two if it spares me the suffering
of a full fledged attack of the flu iy’H.
by injecting a controlled dosage into one’s body, the body immediately begins
producing antibodies to protect itself from a stronger attack of the disease.
It’s worth the minor discomfort for a day or two if it spares me the suffering
of a full fledged attack of the flu iy’H.
The concept behind
vaccination is fascinating – better to deal with the disease now when it’s
controlled and manageable, than to contend with it later when it’s far more
severe and debilitating.
vaccination is fascinating – better to deal with the disease now when it’s
controlled and manageable, than to contend with it later when it’s far more
severe and debilitating.
Expert parents and educators
appreciate this concept well. They understand that when their children are
young they need to give them the space and confidence to make their own
choices, and inevitably mistakes, so that they can gain lifetime experience.
appreciate this concept well. They understand that when their children are
young they need to give them the space and confidence to make their own
choices, and inevitably mistakes, so that they can gain lifetime experience.
There is a great amount of
worthy discussion about the deleterious effect of “helicopter parenting”. These
are parents who hover over their children and seek to protect them from life’s
challenges and negative experiences. These are parents who are quick to defend
their child and lambast the principal and school for disciplining their child,
before finding out the school’s perspective. These are parents who will not
allow anyone to tease their child and when normal immature youthful bantering
takes places, will scream at the school for not protecting their child from
bullying. [The vital difference between teasing – even unpleasant teasing, and
bullying is often misunderstood with very serious consequences. But that is its
own discussion.]
worthy discussion about the deleterious effect of “helicopter parenting”. These
are parents who hover over their children and seek to protect them from life’s
challenges and negative experiences. These are parents who are quick to defend
their child and lambast the principal and school for disciplining their child,
before finding out the school’s perspective. These are parents who will not
allow anyone to tease their child and when normal immature youthful bantering
takes places, will scream at the school for not protecting their child from
bullying. [The vital difference between teasing – even unpleasant teasing, and
bullying is often misunderstood with very serious consequences. But that is its
own discussion.]
Often these well-meaning
parents will never say no to their children when they are young. Then, as the
children age and become obnoxious and disrespectful, the parents have a hard
time setting boundaries.
parents will never say no to their children when they are young. Then, as the
children age and become obnoxious and disrespectful, the parents have a hard
time setting boundaries.
It’s never easy for a
parent to see their child make foolish mistakes, but there is no better teacher
than personal experience.
parent to see their child make foolish mistakes, but there is no better teacher
than personal experience.
Parenting expert and Love
& Logic founder Jim Fay, quips that it’s always better to allow our
children to learn the consequences of their actions when they are young and the
price tag is relatively small, than to learn those lessons when they get older and
the price tag is far more costly.
& Logic founder Jim Fay, quips that it’s always better to allow our
children to learn the consequences of their actions when they are young and the
price tag is relatively small, than to learn those lessons when they get older and
the price tag is far more costly.
The shot may sting and hurt
a bit, but to be vaccinated and protected it’s worth it.
a bit, but to be vaccinated and protected it’s worth it.
Shabbat Shalom & Good Shabbos,
R’ Dani and Chani Staum