PARSHAS BEHA’ALOSCHA 5779
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18 Sivan 5779/June 21, 2019
Baseball. Every grade has its own teams and games. As the boys get older, the
games become more competitive and intense, especially for the parents. That’s
why I really enjoy watching the pre-1Aers, the youngest boys, play; their games
are pleasant and unpressured. I saw it when our oldest son Shalom was in pre-1A
years ago, then again with our second son Avi, and this year, with our third
son, Dovid.
The batter hits the ball off the tee, and the ball slowly dribbles up the
middle of the field. Suddenly, from all sides of the field, fourteen players converge
on the ball. So much for having set positions. Somehow the ball makes it through
all their scrambling legs, and like a swarm of bees all of them make a sharp
turn and start heading towards the outfield to retrieve the ball.
begins running up the third base line and must to be redirected. As he runs up the
first base line, often holding the bat, he tries to figure out where to stop.
By then the ball is in the outfield and he’s being told to head towards the
other white fluffy thing in the middle of the field.
fantastic job they did.
has already progressed to new levels. Fathers and coaches are calling out to
batters to “wait for your pitch” and “good eye’, while fielders are instructed,
“play is to first”, or “try to cut off the run”. But in pre-1A there are no such
instructions being called out. Everyone will be deliriously happy if the batter
actually hits the ball off the tee, and remembers to run to first, and if the
fielders actually find the ball and send it back into the infield. Lower
expectations lead to greater satisfaction all around.
deciding what action they need to take before the play begins. It’s vital that
a fielder and batter knows how many outs there are. Whether a fielder will make
a play to second or decide to hold the runner, and whether a runner will be
running if there is a pop-up depends on how many outs there are.
and has to start contemplating how to proceed once the ball is in play, he will
most likely mess up the play.
players figure out their best plan of action so they can be ready to make their
move as soon as the play begins.
guard J.R. Smith forgot the score with four seconds left. He pulled down an
offensive rebound after a teammate missed a free throw. He didn’t realize that
the game was tied, and so, instead of passing the ball or taking a shot, he
dribbled out to midcourt and ran out the clock. The Cavaliers lost the game to the
Golden State Warriors in overtime.
Undoubtedly, there are many situations when surprises and the unexpected is thrust
upon us. But there are many other situations in which being proactive could
make a world of a difference and change the entire dynamic.
or situations that frustrate others. If we mentally prepare for such encounters,
we will often be far better equipped to handle the situation properly and avoid
confrontation.
pursuits. One moment of thought before davening or performing a mitzvah can make
a world of difference.
suddenly. The entire point of a beracha is to give us a moment of pause to
contemplate what we are about to do – to appreciate the benefit Hashem has granted
us, or to mentally prepare for the mitzvah we are about to perform.
pre-planning is a tragedy![1]
underlying idea in this essay was based on a schmooze by Rabbi Daniel Kalish. The
connection to Pirchei Baseball is my own 😊.